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FinallyâA Course Crafted for Your Unique Relationship
Real Marriage Guidance for Real Connection
Becoming Us is a self-paced, online course tailored to your unique Enneagram couple type, providing the clarity, understanding, and practical tools you need to handle challenges, deepen intimacy, and experience lasting change.
Now $75 | Was $299
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The Power of a Personalized Marriage Course
Every marriage is unique, with its blend of motivations, communication styles, and challenges. Becoming Us understands that there isnât a one-size-fits-all approach to relationship growth. With this course, youâll finally experience guidance that feels as if someone has been listening in on your unique dynamics.
Watch this video to uncover all the exciting benefits you'll gain from the course!
With Your Type-Specific Course, Youâll...
Gain Clarity in Communication
See each otherâs motivations and patterns more clearly, turning what once felt frustrating into opportunities for empathy and connection.
Navigate Conflict with Confidence
With type-specific tools, youâll learn to move through challenging moments without the usual friction, restoring peace and understanding faster.
Experience Growth Together
Each module is designed to strengthen your bond, guiding you both to deeper connection, joy, and intimacy.
Feel Seen, Heard, and Loved
Finally, a resource that helps you feel truly understood by your spouse. This isnât just another marriage courseâitâs a path to a marriage where both partners feel safe, seen, and deeply valued.
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The Modules Include...
Understand how the Enneagram can illuminate both the strengths and challenges in your unique pairing, offering a framework for growth that feels empowering rather than overwhelming.
Gain clarity and understanding of your two types, what motivates each of you, and how to connect.
Learn WHY your two âdanceâ and interact. This groundbreaking module helps you see the âdanceâ of your relationshipâwhy each of you thinks, feels, and reacts. Youâll gain clarity on why you keep returning to the same patterns of relating and find out how to create a healthier, more peaceful dance together.
Discover the deep hope available in aligning your relationship with the truths of the Gospel, and find renewed strength, joy, and commitment.
Explore how your backgrounds influence your relationship, creating the space for understanding, compassion, and healing as you recognize each otherâs unique perspectives.
Understand how each of your two types brings its own communication strengths and challenges. This module will help you communicate in ways that make your spouse feel heard, valued, and respected.
Gain practical strategies for handling conflict without escalating or withdrawing. Learn the art of addressing issues in a way that brings you closer, not further apart.
Discover how to authentically celebrate and uplift each other, deepening your connection and strengthening your commitment.
Personalized Workbook Tailored for Your Types
This bundle includes a 64-page printable guide designed to accompany your journey. Each page is created with your specific Enneagram couple type in mind, allowing you to deepen your understanding and connect the lessons directly to your unique relationship.
+5 Exclusive Bonuses to
Strengthen Your Marriage
From Confrontation to Caring" Communication Formula
Communication Formula:Â A 4-step guide to transforming difficult conversations into opportunities for connection.
A Resource on How to Fight Well
Conflict Recovery Resource:Â Learn forgiveness and a 5-step method for moving forward after disagreements.
Discovering You Online Course
Enneagram Overview: Dive deeper into your Enneagram type and uncover your unique motivations and growth areas.
Enneagram Enhanced Parenting Plan
Gain insights on how your Enneagram type affects your parenting style.
Swift Success
Strategy
Strategy
Step-by-step strategies to complete the course and implement lasting change, even with a busy schedule.
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Why Couples Are Grateful for Becoming Us
Type 1 & Type 9
âAs a Type 1, Iâm always striving for improvement, and my Type 9 spouse values peace above all else. This course helped us see that our strengths donât have to be at odds. Through the âRelationship Danceâ module, we finally understood how our contrasting approaches created tension but also had the potential to complement each other. We learned to approach conversations in a way that made us both feel respectedâmy spouse feels understood, and I feel heard without needing to âfixâ everything.â
â Sarah & Tom J.
Type 3 & Type 6
âAs a Type 3, Iâm driven to achieve, and my Type 6 partner tends to focus on potential risks. Before the course, we felt constantly out of syncâmy ambition felt overwhelming, and their caution came across as distrust. The Becoming Us course provided exactly what we needed to understand how our types impact our relationship. With the âConflict Stylesâ module, we learned practical strategies to balance my drive with their need for reassurance. Now, instead of clashing, we each feel valued for what we bring to the relationship.â
â Laura & Ben T.
Type 2 & Type 8
âOur Type 2 and Type 8 dynamics meant that I (Type 2) often felt dismissed when trying to help, while my spouse felt overwhelmed by my care. The âCommunication Stylesâ module in Becoming Us opened our eyes to how our Enneagram types affected our interactions. I learned to give space, and my spouse learned to show appreciation in ways that truly matter to me. We now understand each otherâs needs so much betterâthis course was truly life-changing for us.â
â Megan & Dave W.
Type 5 & Type 4
âAs a Type 5, Iâm naturally reserved, while my Type 4 spouse feels deeply and expresses emotions openly. This difference used to make us feel disconnected. The âFamily of Originâ module was a breakthroughâseeing how our backgrounds shaped our emotional responses helped us empathize with one another. We finally found a middle ground where my partner feels seen and valued, and I can open up without feeling drained. Becoming Us felt like it was crafted just for us, and it brought us closer than ever.â
â Jeni & Alex S.
Type 7 & Type 1
âMy Type 7 spontaneity sometimes frustrated my Type 1 spouse, who craves order and plans. This course gave us both clarity around our needs and how to balance them. The âGospelâ module especially resonated with us, reminding us to lean on grace and find joy in our differences. Instead of feeling stifled or rigid, weâve learned how to bring fun and structure to our marriage in a way that feels uplifting for both of us. Weâre so grateful for the insights and practical guidance!â
â Becky & Paul M.
Donât Wait Another Day to Strengthen Your Marriage
Research shows that most couples wait 6 years before seeking help. Donât let another year pass with unresolved conflicts, misunderstandings, and missed opportunities for connection. Start 2025 with a renewed sense of hope, joy, and excitement for your marriage.
Frequently Asked Questions
Each video session is between 5 and 25 minutes long. It is designed to prompt âdatesâ with your spouse that are about an hour long. The Swift Success Strategy bonus includes detailed suggestions to facilitate these conversations.
While we would love for you to watch the video sessions together, we understand that's not always possible. Even if you watch the video sessions alone, it can greatly impact your marriage. If your spouse isn't ready to take the course with you, don't let that stop you from taking positive action toward your desired relationship growth!
You can encourage your partner to take our free test to find their Type by clicking here. It will only take them 5-10 minutes to complete. Then come back here to get your unique course.Â
Also, if you discover you or your spouse is a different Type during the videos, simply email our support team ([email protected]) and let them know your spouseâs correct Type, and weâll do a one-time exchange to get you the right course!Â
The video sessions are available online, allowing you to access them at any time. Additionally, we provide downloadable resources to assist you in understanding the content, along with transcripts for each session so that you can either watch or read them!
In a few sessions, you will improve your understanding of yourselves and each other, leading to healthier communication and conflict resolution in your marriage. You will gain tools and strategies to support one another, rooted in the truth of the Gospel and your identities in Christ. As you apply these techniques, you will notice positive changes in your relationship dynamics, resulting in:
- More graceful and compassionate interactions
- Conversations previously filled with conflict will become calm and respectful
- You both will feel heard, seen, understood, and validated and ultimately, this process will transform your marriage.
The regular retail price of this course is $299, but right now, you can get it for an incredible 75% offâjust $75! This limited-time offer is only available until Dec. 2, so donât miss your chance to invest in your relationship at this unbeatable price!
Your Marriage Doesnât Have to Wait
Many couples wait years to seek help in their relationship, living through cycles of frustration and miscommunication. You can start today.Becoming Us will give you and your spouse the insight, tools, and encouragement to build the marriage youâve always dreamed of. Weâre cheering you on and canât wait to see the transformation that unfolds in your relationship.
